In my first year-marriage, to be honest, I ever said to my husband, “Huney, sorry I couldn’t cooked yet anymore, just little bit cook noodle instant or hot water, in addition I didn’t like to cook even the smell of kitchen or seasoning too sometimes makes me nauseous. Thus, I’m not skilled for it”. Wow, so innocent, I said it. “No problem” answered he was ” I love u what u are, it could be practiced some day”. Thats one of many reasons why I respect him. Yeah, he loves me what I was, he didn’t require me to be a woman he wanted. He wait me to change. Change to being a really true woman, to learned how way to be his better spouse, do my “love” duties –> learn to cook, a wife have to do.
As we go on, I learned to cook gradually. Yes, my first dishes “Rib Soup” successfully made. He admired me. He said “I know u can, u can do it same with others, u great…its have good taste, I’m proud of u” . Therefore, it gave huge spirit to myself to make him happier day by day. Girls, cooking is really interesting thing, it’s one way to pleasing your husbands. Ur husbands would appreciate ur efforts, like me. He stood up without required a lot things to me and approached me.
Thanx darling, you’re awesome…MashaAlloh, Alloh Bless u. Aamiin (^_^)
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